“’Kill Me With Your Love’ is a song about a toxic relationship addiction. It’s the process of trying to find a fix to the addiction but continuing to stay around for the emotional payoffs. Like any toxic relationship, it’s about the way we tell ourselves that the relationship will at some point, be perfect and everything we’ve ever dreamed of. So, you balance your odds and make bets you can’t afford to lose, but consistently lose anyway as the relationship continues to fall deeper into toxicity. For a long time toxic love was where I felt most safe because it was all I ever knew,” says Jonze.